Why Men Love Dirty Talk? Based On Science by Harry Laren

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Guys always love it when girls make noises during sex. They don’t like it when you’re quiet and inactive. So, let loose and make as many noises as you want – it is guaranteed to turn him on. You might be really nervous, and so you want to do it perfectly. Overthinking will just make you more uncomfortable.

Dirty-talking examples

He wants to be able to give you pleasure and make you feel amazing. In fact, I’ve heard many of my male clients say that simply witnessing their partner in the depths of pleasure is more satisfying to them than experiencing their own deepest pleasure. As a result, the erotic spark gets outsourced to novels, clubs, and pornography. Dirty talking is telling your partner what you want to do to him or with him before actually doing it.

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However, you need to try and believe in yourself as much as you can, and then real confidence will come. It all comes down to confidence, practice, and following a few tips. You have no idea what you’ve gotten yourself into. Why can’t I have you like this all the time, you’re my new addiction. I’m ecstatic just thinking about your cock every day. I can’t imagine sharing you with anyone, you’re so freaking hot.

• But while some couples love the idea of it, others may struggle with stepping outside their comfort zone.
• Dirty talk can be very powerful if you know how to use them correctly.
• Either that or he himself has been tainted by society’s twisted values of how a woman should be in all aspects.
• Even worse, you know that you’re not pleasing your man sexually (or at least, this is what you suspect).

In the moment

When you’re out in public, you won’t be having sex, but it’s still a very good time to talk dirty to your man as you can build massive amounts of sexual tension with him…perfect for when you get home! You will most likely need to whisper these dirty ideas and lines in your man’s ears. But if you like you can also type them on your phone and then show them to him. But if you want to take it to the next level, try talking to your partner about what sort of words, phrases, and tones turn each of you on. While this may sound clinical, it doesn’t have to be. Depending on the way you set up the conversation, talking about sexy talk can pretty easily lead to actual sexy talking, so it’s a great form of foreplay.

Every person has their particular trigger words that feel too jarring for them. It can take a little more time to get a woman’s water boiling, so to speak, whereas a guy’s can go from Lake Placid to full-on tsunami in a matter of seconds. The bedroom should always be a judgment-free zone, but that doesn’t make anyone invincible to embarrassment. Hiding you or your partner’s face behind a mask may help relieve shyness, or add an air of erotic mystery while dictating exactly what you want each other to do. Imagine saying, “I want to stimulate your mammary glands with my oral cavity.” It’s accurate—but far from sexy.